The Horsemen Files: September 2010

Why do we like "Older Women"?

Interesting.. I was just talking to a hommie of mine, as we talking about things like this and I said you will have the most "fun" with "younger and older women". The thing is when I mean fun, I'm not talking about sex, but that has alot to do with it.. but moreso just FUN..chillin, relaxing and having a great time. At the end of the day..THAT is what most men want. NO STRESS.. and even if things are..it shouldn't be daily. I think that is the issue for the women who don't fit either category. It's no reflection on life..I wish I had this..either kids, job, man, education etc. The thing is life is what you make it. If you spent the majority of your time in school, you missed out on social things you should do when you are young..if you had kids early..whatever the case may be..LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT..don't whine and pout about it..do something..it's not too late..plus it's not attractive. If you are pissed about "turning 30" kill yerself.. you will be 29 forever..If you wanna go back to school..call a counselor..just plan it out. Anyhoo..Askmen.com has a top 10 as too why we love "older women"..I decided to post it..Let's see what they say..

No.10 - Older women are independent

One of the top 10 things we love about older women is their independence. Older women are typically more comfortable being alone. They’ve spent time in and out of relationships and consequently they know how to get along fine without us by their sides every single moment. They know that they don’t need a boyfriend attached to their hip to be happy. This means that older women are less likely to be clingy or needy, which makes them much easier to get along with.

-I would have to agree. No man loves a needy, clingy woman..and if he does..chances are that woman would lose respect for em and probably, dump, cheat, or drain his soul. You don't want that. We love when you can do your thing an I can do mines. YES I like to play Xbox sometimes and watch football. As long as the bills are paid, you get cuddle time and I watch Lifetime every once in a while..I should be entitled to that..jus saying..

No.9 - Older women are assertive

Older women often have a clearer sense of who they are and what they want. Consequently, they’re less timid when it comes to men and they’re also less inclined to play games. While a woman in her early 20s might waste your time playing hard to get, or trying to make you jealous, a woman even five or 10 years older is more likely to cut to the chase and be upfront about her feelings or lack thereof. That kind of forthrightness is refreshing; it can even be a turn-on. And it’s another one of the top 10 things we love about older women.

-This is true.. BUT.. I think that game paying is still running rampant..BUT..they are less likely to make you "EARN" something.. smh.. I always thought it was 50/50.. don't get me wrong.. I'm a gentleman and very catering.. but..you gotta give a little too. No one likes jumping through hurdles.

No.8 - Older women offer good conversation

There’s nothing like going out on a date and having a 45-minute conversation about Spiedi, followed by a scintillating story about how your date was going to buy this one purse, but instead she didn’t and got this other purse instead. A good conversation is one of those things we tend to take for granted until we haven’t had one in a while. Great conversation skills are something that younger women often lack, not so much because they’re women, but mostly because they’re young. Quite simply, older women have lived longer. They’ve seen things, done things and been places. They have more interesting stories and more experience, and that makes them better conversationalists. Don’t underestimate the importance of talking; it will keep a relationship interesting long after the spark of the initial attraction has faded.

-Most women can be selfish in this regard and can tend to bully the convo. Conversation should be like a tennis match and not wallball..just saying. Plus talking about your job, clubbing and getting wasted.. ehhh.. I'll pass. The thing is most guys..or me will act just as shallow as the convo we are getting. It feels good to have great conversation.

No.7 - Older women have more money

OK, so perhaps this entry on our list is a bit mercenary. However, we prefer to think of it as “pragmatic.” The truth is, older women do tend to have more money than younger women. We’re not saying that’s the most important thing to consider when dating someone. It’s just a comfort for guys to know they aren’t going to have to pay for every single date over the course of a relationship. Nor are they going to have to pay her cell phone bill when her burgeoning modeling career “temporarily” stalls.

-UHHH.. no comment.. pretty self explanatory. WE LIKE THINGS TOO..

No.6 - Older women have more mature friendships.

Younger women are often deeply entangled in cliques. Through texts, phone calls and daily e-mails they’re constantly checking in with their gal pals. In order to become her boyfriend, you have to have the approval of her friends. Before you make plans, she’s got to check with Mitsy and Bitsy. It can be exhausting. Older women are often less invested in seeking the approval of their female friends. They don’t need to consult their friends before making even the most minor decisions. Older women are more confident and self-reliant; their friendships are more mature. They’ve had time to sift through the fair-weather friends, the hangers-on and the airheads, and they’ve streamlined their social networks.

-Tis true. I feel like when you get in a new relationship, dating..women are too eager to show you of to their friends and set up lil play dates with them and the guy who is in the same relationship as you. AIN'T COOL. I'm not a YORKIE. I keed but..CMON..I don't wanna meet your raggedy friend who can never get a man and I can tell she hates on your "happiness". She would never be my friend, so I look at you like why do you keep her around. ehhh..

No.5 - Older women make better dates

The thing that makes older women better dates is that they have more sophisticated tastes. Plain and simple, older women do grown-up things and that’s another one of the top 10 things we love about them. They’re not interested in getting stupid drunk and passing out in a public washroom. They’re not interested in grinding on a dance floor to obnoxiously loud techno music. Older women are past their rebellious phase and over their need to be the center of attention.

-Nuff said.

No.4 - Older women are less drama-prone

Maybe it’s because younger women experience a lot of firsts that they seem unprepared to navigate life’s twists and turns. First loves, first broken hearts, first betrayals: we suppose it can all seem like too much sometimes. Younger women just always seem to have more drama in their lives than their more experienced counterparts do. Due to their immaturity, younger women tend to magnify the importance of every little thing. When you’re dating a really young woman, there always seems to be a new catastrophe or crisis. It’s really impossible to avoid getting sucked into the drama, pointless as it may seem. Most older women are cooler under pressure; they know how to deal with disasters, and they can often handle them on their own.

-Probably the BIGGEST ONE. They can handle pressure. 9 times out of 10, we look at the stuff you complain about and we think it's not very important..so when we see you make a HUGE deal out of it..It makes us wonder..how would she act if something bad ACTUALLY happened...hmm. *thoughts of fear crosses his head*

No.3 - Older women have more sexual experience

Perhaps the most common reason men cite for wanting to date older women is superior sex. Older women are better in bed. Period. They’ve gotten over all the little insecurities and anxieties that can negatively impact your sex life. Older women are comfortable in their own skin. Moreover, they know how to make the bedroom exciting and interesting. They’ve graduated beyond the bedroom basics and their experience often makes them more willing to try new things.

-Nuff Said. Once we passed high school.. you should know how this goes..

No.2 - Older women have more relationship experience

Older women know how to handle the trials and tribulations associated with relationships because they’ve been through just about all of it before. She’s going to have more realistic expectations. She’s less likely to have a princess complex. Older women are typically more measured and well-mannered in their response to relationship crises, which makes the chances of a long-term relationship with her much better.

-If you are reading this, and you still THINK you are a princess.. *DEAD*

No.1 - Older women value your time together

Equipped with a clear sense of what’s really important in life, older women are more appreciative of the time you spend together and they aren’t likely to be reckless with your emotions. That’s the thing we love most about older women. While younger women often don’t take men, relationships or life in general very seriously, an older woman understands the value of a good man. She’s seen what’s out there, she knows what’s at stake and she’s not likely to take you for granted.

-GAVEL.

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