AskMen.com x Don't Try To Impress a Women..

Again.. I check out askmen.com from time to time and I gotta say.. if you not on this site. It's giving the game away.. I wish I had this some years ago. Hope this site stays around for me and my unborn son.. lol. (no kids on the way, no rumors please) BUT.. check this article out by the hommie Dean Cardell.. Dont try to impress women in the company of men.. It's an automatic downfall..

For the longest time, we have had to keep our mouths shut. But now you’re in the company of men.

Your shiny shoes click on the street as you turn up toward her house. You're armed with the best and most expensive bouquet of flowers the store had and there may even be some fancy chocolates or something shiny in your possession. She opens the door and you’re all aflutter and soon enough, you’ll be kissing her hand and her ass just to impress her. Stop stooping and stand up, man. Don't try to impress women.

Stop selling out your gender

Almost every man is guilty of it: trying to impress women so that they will date you, sleep with you, stay with you, etc. Still, it may even seem like the logical thing to do in that bar or club or on that first date. Maybe you say something smart and try to look worldly and deep. Maybe you rent or borrow a really nice car to show up in. Or maybe you spend more than you can afford on dinner. Whatever the trick, you’re trying to impress a woman, and that is the worst thing to do. Why? Because, slowly but surely, you are doing your gender a disservice. Your attempts to impress women are really groveling and you’re perpetuating the myth that guys should have to stoop to please.

A man’s attempt to impress women sells out his dignity, his confidence and his self-esteem. He stops being himself, speaking his mind, giving his opinion, and making decisions as a real man should.
This is what I call a B.A.N. I think we all know what this is.. and if you don't hit me on twitter..we can talk on it.. but just BE YOURSELF.. end of the day.. it will always go back to that anyway.. only so long you can pretend.. "I FORGIVE YOU..HUSTLING JUST AINT YOU" (c) Jay-Z "D'evils

A nutless wonder

This self-emasculation only gives life to the idea that a man must bow down, work like a dog and prove himself worthy to the women he dates. Forget about whether he’s a good man or a stand-up guy. Impressing women is about what you can do for them and not about who you are. Instead of cutting off your pair, try growing them. Once you start down that road of trying to impress women, you do not become their equal; you become their lap dog.

There was a time when men were men and talked to women instead of trying to impress them. Somewhere along the way, fellas began to believe that putting women on pedestals was the only way to get their attention. No, putting them on some make-believe podium will really push them away and leave you a nutless disappointment to mankind.

“Well, Dean, if I shouldn’t impress her, what should I do instead?” Just be yourself with your own confidence. Most men run around with hooks in their cheeks and leashes on their necks trying to please some woman or another. Be you. Any woman worth talking to will communicate with the real you, a man who stands up straight and speaks his mind. Impressing her will only leave you a slave.
....CHUUUCH.. can I get an AMEN..take the petistool away and burn it.. Nothing wrong with being a gentlemen.. but this route will get you no where..end of the day.. a "strong" woman needs a "STRONGER" man.. or mate/partner.. however you rolling but..take charge.. she actually wants you too..but NOTHING IS GIVEN

Impress US, Baby

With all the talk of equality and role reversal, try this: Instead of submitting to women for their approval, guys should be waiting for women to put their own dignity and self-respect on the line. Ladies should find their own ways, standing up or lying down, to impress men.

I’m Dean Cardell and I make no apologies.

..pass the collection plate.. as harsh as he sounds..(maybe to some) THAT IS THE WAY.. be a man.. when a woman is in love or cares for you.. nothing she will NOT DO.. NOTHING.. so men.. take charge.. don't be a B.A.N. take what you want.. and if she dont want it.. she is missing out..